go by
2 meanings
pass (used about time)
What does "go by" mean in this sense?
Examples
- As the months went by, she began to feel more confident in her new job.
- A lot of time has gone by since we last spoke — I can't believe it's been five years.
- The years go by so fast when you're busy.
How to use it
The subject is always a time word or phrase — 'years', 'weeks', 'time', 'months', etc. — and the phrasal verb is intransitive, so no object follows.
Three years went by before she finally heard from him.
This pattern, common in narrative and storytelling, signals a gradual change or progression happening over a period of time.
As the weeks went by, he started to feel much more comfortable in the new city.
Adverbs like 'quickly', 'slowly', or 'fast' are frequently added to comment on the perceived speed of time passing.
The summer holidays went by so quickly — it felt like they were over before they began.
The present perfect is common when connecting a past period to the present moment, often expressing surprise at how much time has elapsed.
I can't believe how much time has gone by since we graduated.
This construction describes allowing time to pass, often implying that something was delayed or left undone during that period.
Don't let too many months go by without checking in with your old friends.
Common Collocations
Common Mistakes
Saying 'time is going by' sounds very unnatural in English. For the general passage of time, use the simple present ('time goes by') or simple past ('time went by') instead.
When the subject is a time word (years, weeks, time), 'go by' means to elapse. When the subject is a person with an object like 'the rules' or 'her name', it means to follow or use something as a guide — a completely different meaning.
'Go by' sounds unnatural in the simple future when talking about time — use 'pass' instead, or restructure the sentence.
Usage
This phrasal verb is neutral and works in both spoken and written English. The fixed phrase 'as time goes by' is especially common and is safe to use in almost any context.
follow or be guided by something (rules, evidence, experience)
Sense 2: What does "go by sth" mean?
Examples
- If we go by the latest figures, the company is performing well above expectations.
- She doesn't always go by the book — she tends to trust her instincts instead.
- Going by what he told me, I assumed the meeting had been cancelled.
How to use it
The most common pattern — a person or group uses a rule, standard, or piece of evidence as a guide for decisions or judgements.
The hiring panel said they would go by the interview scores rather than personal recommendations.
When the source of guidance is expressed as a clause rather than a single noun, 'what' introduces it naturally.
I tend to go by what my colleagues recommend when I'm choosing a supplier.
The participial form 'going by' can open a sentence to mean 'judging from' or 'based on', introducing the basis for a conclusion.
Going by the feedback so far, the new policy seems to be well received.
Conditional constructions with 'if we go by...' are very natural when presenting reasoning or drawing tentative conclusions from evidence.
If we go by last year's figures, demand is likely to peak in autumn.
Negative constructions are common when warning that a particular source or standard is unreliable as a guide.
You can't always go by appearances — someone's style doesn't tell you much about their work ethic.
Common Collocations
Common Mistakes
Unlike some phrasal verbs, 'go by' cannot be separated — the object must always come directly after 'by', never between 'go' and 'by'. This applies to all objects, including pronouns.
'Go by' in this sense describes a habitual behaviour or a basis for reasoning, not an ongoing action, so continuous forms like 'we are going by the rules' sound unnatural. Use the simple present or past instead.
'Go on' (as in 'there's not much to go on') emphasises having limited or insufficient evidence, while 'go by' focuses on using a specific standard or source as your guide. They are not always interchangeable.
Usage
This phrasal verb is neutral and works in both formal and informal contexts. The participial form 'going by...' is especially common as a way to introduce reasoning, similar to 'judging by' or 'based on'.
Frequently Asked Questions
Does 'go by' always need a time word as the subject?
In this sense, yes — the subject is almost always a time expression like 'years', 'weeks', 'months', 'days', or 'time'. If the subject is a person or a vehicle, 'go by' has a completely different meaning. The time word is what signals that you are talking about time elapsing.
Is 'as time goes by' a set phrase, or can I change it?
'As time goes by' is a very well-known fixed expression and is safe to use exactly as it is. You can also adapt the structure with other time words — for example, 'as the years go by' or 'as the months went by' — and these variations sound equally natural, especially in stories or reflective writing.
Is 'go by' the same as 'pass' when talking about time?
They are very close in meaning and often interchangeable, but 'go by' has a slightly more reflective or idiomatic feel, especially in fixed phrases like 'as time goes by'. 'Pass' can sound a little more neutral or formal. In everyday conversation and storytelling, both work well, but 'go by' is particularly natural in phrases where you are looking back on time that has elapsed.
Can I use 'go by' to talk about future time, like 'a few weeks will go by'?
This sounds unnatural. When referring to time in the future, 'pass' is the better choice — for example, 'a few weeks will pass'. 'Go by' is most naturally used in the past or in general statements about how time tends to elapse.
Does 'go by' always mean to follow rules? Can it apply to other things?
Not at all — the object of 'go by' can be almost anything you use as a guide or reference point. Common examples include evidence, experience, figures, instinct, appearances, gut feeling, and what someone has told you. The key is that the object is the basis or standard shaping your judgement or decision.
Can 'going by' be used at the start of a sentence?
Yes, and it's actually very common. 'Going by...' at the start of a sentence works like 'judging from' or 'based on', introducing the source behind a conclusion. For example, 'Going by his tone, he wasn't convinced' is a natural and fluent construction in both spoken and written English.
Does 'go by' have other meanings? I've seen it used differently.
Yes, 'go by' has at least two other meanings: one relates to time or movement passing (as in 'time goes by' or 'she went by the shop'), and another means to be known by a particular name (as in 'he goes by the nickname Flash'). The context — especially what follows 'by' — makes it clear which sense is meant.
Is 'go by' more British or American English?
It's used naturally in both British and American English with no significant regional preference. The sense of following or being guided by something is well established across all major varieties of English.
Can I use 'go by it' or 'go by them' with a pronoun?
Grammatically, yes — 'go by it' and 'go by them' are both correct. In practice, though, bare pronouns can sound vague without enough context, so learners often find it clearer to use a fuller phrase such as 'go by what the data shows' rather than just 'go by it'.
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