send off

3 meanings

Meanings
  1. 1 post something or send it through the mail B1
  2. 2 gather to say goodbye to someone leaving on a trip B2
  3. 3 order a player to leave the field as a punishment B2
1 send sth off

post something or send it through the mail

B1

What does "send off" mean in this sense?

To send something off means to post it, mail it, or dispatch it to a particular place or person. You might send off a job application, a parcel, or a form — the focus is on the action of getting the item out and on its way to its destination. It is a common, everyday phrase in British English and works well in both spoken conversation and informal writing like emails. The key idea is that something leaves your hands and travels to a specific recipient or address.

Examples

How to use it

send off + object

The most common structure, used when the object is a noun phrase such as a letter, form, or parcel.

I need to send off the application before the deadline.

send + object + off

The object can be placed between the verb and 'off', especially with short noun phrases — this is very natural and common.

He sent the cheque off this morning, so it should arrive by Thursday.

send + pronoun + off

When the object is a pronoun, it must go between 'send' and 'off' — it cannot come after 'off'.

I've finished the form — I'll send it off after lunch.

object + be sent off

The passive form works well, especially in more formal or administrative situations where the person who sent the item is not important.

The documents were sent off by courier on Monday.

send off + object + to + recipient/place

You can specify where or to whom the item is being dispatched by adding 'to' and the destination.

She sent off her CV to several companies last week.

Common Collocations

applicationletterformparceldocumentspayment

Common Mistakes

Pronoun placement

When you use a pronoun like 'it' or 'them', it must go between 'send' and 'off'. Placing it after 'off' is ungrammatical.

I'll send off it tomorrow.
I'll send it off tomorrow.
Confusing 'send off' with 'send out'

'Send out' is used when you are distributing something to many people at once, while 'send off' focuses on dispatching a single item to a specific destination. They are not always interchangeable.

We sent off invitations to all 200 guests.
We sent out invitations to all 200 guests. / I sent off my reply to the host.
Separating with a very long noun phrase

When the object is a long noun phrase, it sounds more natural to keep 'send off' together rather than splitting it. Separation works best with short objects and pronouns.

I sent the completed application form for the graduate programme off yesterday.
I sent off the completed application form for the graduate programme yesterday.

Usage

This phrasal verb is more common in British English; American speakers often prefer 'mail out' or 'send out'. It is neutral in register and works equally well in spoken conversation and informal writing such as emails.

2 send sb off

gather to say goodbye to someone leaving on a trip

B2

Sense 2: What does "send sb off" mean?

To send someone off means to go somewhere to say goodbye to them as they leave — often at an airport, train station, or port. The phrase often suggests a group of people coming together for the occasion, giving it a slightly ceremonial or communal feel. You might use it when a colleague retires, a team departs for a tournament, or troops leave for a long deployment. The noun form 'send-off' is equally common — as in 'they gave her a wonderful send-off' — and is worth learning alongside the verb. This sense of 'send off' is neutral in tone and works naturally in both spoken conversation and written English such as news reports.

Examples

How to use it

come/go to send + person + off

This construction is very common and makes the farewell purpose of the journey explicit.

Dozens of friends came to the airport to send him off on his new adventure.

send + pronoun + off

When the object is a pronoun, it must always go between the verb and particle.

She had worked there for twenty years, so we all wanted to send her off properly.

send + short noun phrase + off

Short noun phrases, especially referring to specific people or groups, naturally sit between the verb and particle.

The crowd gathered at the harbour to send the sailors off before dawn.

send off + longer noun phrase

When the object is a longer or more complex noun phrase, it follows the particle rather than appearing in the middle.

The whole town came out to send off the athletes who had trained there for years.

be sent off + adverbial phrase

The passive is natural with this verb, often followed by a phrase describing the style or spirit of the farewell.

After thirty years at the firm, she was sent off with a standing ovation and flowers.

Common Collocations

send her/him offsend the troops offcame to send offsent off in stylesend off a colleaguebig send-off

Common Mistakes

Pronoun placement

When the object is a pronoun like 'him', 'her', or 'them', it must go between the verb and particle. Placing it after the particle is ungrammatical in English.

We all went to the station to send off her.
We all went to the station to send her off.
Confusing the farewell sense with other meanings

'Send off' also means to post something (a letter, a parcel) or, in British sports, to dismiss a player from the game. Context usually makes it clear, but learners should check whether the object is a person being farewelled — that's the key signal for this meaning.

Usage

This sense (saying goodbye to someone leaving) is neutral and works in both spoken and written English. Note that 'send off' also means to post a letter or dismiss a sports player, so context is important.

3 send sb off

order a player to leave the field as a punishment

B2

Sense 3: What does "send sb off" mean?

In sport, when a referee sends a player off, they order that player to leave the pitch immediately as a punishment for breaking the rules seriously. The player cannot continue in the match and cannot be replaced, so their team is left with one fewer player. This typically happens after an offence such as a dangerous tackle, violent conduct, or receiving two yellow cards. The phrase is most common in football (soccer) but also appears in rugby and other team sports. It is the referee — not the coach or manager — who has the authority to send a player off.

Examples

How to use it

referee + send off + player

The most common structure, with the referee as subject and the player as object — either a noun or pronoun.

The referee sent off the striker after a reckless challenge from behind.

referee + send + pronoun + off

When the object is a pronoun, it almost always goes between 'send' and 'off' — this is the natural form in live commentary.

He was already on a yellow card, so the referee sent him off immediately.

player + be sent off + (for + offence)

The passive is very common, especially in match reports written from the player's perspective. The reason is often added with 'for'.

The captain was sent off for violent conduct in the closing minutes of the game.

send off + player + for + offence

Use 'for' to specify the reason why the player was dismissed.

The referee sent off the goalkeeper for handling the ball well outside the penalty area.

get sent off

Learners and fans often use 'get sent off' informally to describe what happened to a player from their point of view.

Their best midfielder got sent off after picking up a second yellow card.

Common Collocations

dangerous tackleviolent conducttwo yellow cardsred cardthe refereeprofessional foul

Common Mistakes

Confusing 'send off' with 'take off'

'Take off' means a coach removes a player as a tactical substitution and the player can be replaced. 'Send off' is a punishment by the referee, and the player cannot be replaced. These two are not interchangeable.

The manager sent off the striker and brought on a fresh attacker.
The manager took off the striker and brought on a fresh attacker. / The referee sent off the striker for a dangerous tackle.
Using the wrong agent

Only a referee (or other match official) can send a player off — not a manager, coach, or club. Using the wrong subject makes the sentence sound unnatural.

The manager sent off the player for arriving late to training.
The referee sent off the player for serious foul play.
Confusing the sports sense with the postal sense

Outside a sports context, 'send off' usually means to dispatch something by post. Always use a person as the object and provide sports context to make the disciplinary meaning clear.

The referee sent off a letter to the committee.
The referee sent off the midfielder after a dangerous challenge.

Usage

This meaning is specific to sport, mainly football. Outside a sports context, 'send off' usually means to post or dispatch something, so always make the context clear.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is 'send off' more British or American English?

'Send off' is more common in British English. American speakers tend to say 'mail out' or 'drop something in the mail' instead. If you are writing to an American audience, 'send out' or 'mail' might sound more natural, but 'send off' is widely understood.

Does 'send off' always need an object?

Yes, in this meaning — dispatching something — you always need to say what is being sent. You cannot just say 'I sent off' without specifying the item. The object can come before or after 'off', but it must be there.

Can I use 'send off' for emails, or only physical post?

You can use it for both. While it is very common with physical items like letters, parcels, and forms, it also works naturally with emails and digital documents. For example, 'I'll send off the report by email this afternoon' is perfectly natural.

Does 'send off' have another meaning I should know about?

Yes — 'send off' can also mean a referee dismissing a player from a sports field, particularly in football. This is a completely different meaning and is easy to tell apart because it involves people, not items being posted or dispatched.

What kinds of things can you 'send off'?

The most common objects used with this phrasal verb are things like applications, letters, forms, parcels, packages, CVs, payments, cheques, and documents. Basically, anything you post, mail, or dispatch to a specific person or address.

Does 'send off' always involve a group of people, or can one person do it alone?

One person can absolutely send someone off — for example, 'I went to the station to send her off.' That said, 'send off' often implies a more communal or ceremonial farewell, so it's particularly common when describing a crowd or group. If you want to emphasise a more personal, one-to-one goodbye, 'see off' can feel slightly more natural, though both are widely used.

What's the difference between 'send off' and 'see off' in this meaning?

They are nearly synonymous in the farewell sense and are often interchangeable. The subtle difference is that 'send off' tends to suggest a slightly more ceremonial or collective goodbye, while 'see off' can feel more personal. In practice, most speakers use them without making this distinction consciously.

Can I use 'send off' in the present continuous, like 'We are sending them off right now'?

It sounds a little awkward unless you're describing an ongoing farewell event that's actively happening — for example, a departure ceremony that's in progress. In most cases, you'd be more likely to use the simple present or simple past: 'We sent them off this morning' or 'They went to send him off.' The present continuous is not impossible, but it's rarely the most natural choice.

Is the noun 'send-off' related to this meaning?

Yes, directly. A 'send-off' is the farewell event or occasion itself — for example, 'They gave her a fantastic send-off after twenty years at the company.' It's very commonly used alongside the phrasal verb and is a natural part of everyday English, both spoken and written.

What kinds of objects or situations naturally go with this sense of 'send off'?

Typical contexts include saying goodbye to someone at an airport, train station, or port; farewelling a colleague at a retirement party; waving off a sports team before a competition; or seeing troops depart. The object is always a person or group of people — if the object is a thing like a letter or parcel, the phrasal verb is being used in a completely different sense (meaning to post or dispatch something).

Does 'send off' always mean a disciplinary action in sport? I've heard it used in other ways.

No — 'send off' has more than one meaning. In a sports context with a person as the object, it means a referee punishes a player by ordering them off the pitch. Outside sport, 'send off' most commonly means to post or dispatch something. The context usually makes the meaning clear.

Can I say a player was 'sent off' in any sport, or just football?

It's most strongly associated with football (soccer), but you'll also hear it used in rugby and some other team sports that have referees with the power to eject players. In sports where this doesn't happen, you'd use different expressions.

Is 'sent off' the same as receiving a red card?

In football, yes — the two are closely linked. A player who is sent off receives a red card, and a player who receives a red card is sent off. The phrases are often used together, but 'sent off' focuses on the action of leaving the field while 'red card' refers to the physical signal the referee makes.

Can I use 'send off' in the present tense, or does it sound strange?

The present tense is actually very natural in live match commentary, where it's used to describe events as they happen: 'And the referee sends him off!' In match reports or everyday conversation about a past game, the simple past or passive ('was sent off') is more typical.

What kinds of offences cause a player to be sent off?

Common reasons include a dangerous or reckless tackle, violent conduct, a professional foul, serious foul play, or receiving two yellow cards in the same match. These collocations come up frequently in sports journalism and commentary, so learning them together with 'send off' is very useful.

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